You are doing a really good job

Seems like such a simple thing to say, to think, to pass along.  And yet, it seems a lot of us don't actually hear these words very often.  Or not nearly as often as we need to. As a parent, I tell my kids "good job!" quite often.  They tell each other "good job!".  They tell …

You are Funny Smart Clever Kind – The Words We Use Matter

"You are funny smart clever kind". F.S.C.K.  It looks like another four letter word I'm quite fond of as well. This all started because I want my kids to know without a shadow of a doubt that they are so much more than their looks.  Their being cute. Handsome or pretty.  Because as all kids …

Thrift Store Earrings of Hope

Years ago I was SURE that I didn't want kids.  NEVER.  NEVER EVER EVER.*   I didn't have a motherly instinct. I certainly didn't want to bring another life into the world that I could screw up. I was also in a series of relationships that made me question everything about myself and wonder why …