Every year on my birthday my little mama calls me and says with a shaky yet happy voice, "(however many years ago - this year it's 40 years ago) right now it was just you and me kiddo." It's more profound this year than any other year as I have my own babies to help me reflect on …
If Life Were Fair, I Would Be Dead
Happiness is not our right. We don't have the right to happiness. Stop believing that. Just stop it. We have to work at happiness. It doesn't just happen. I'm so damn tired of entitlement and people thinking they are owed something by life just by existing. Do some damn work, already. People mope around and act all …
Is Kindness a Weakness?
There's such a part of me that still wants to be a cool kid. I've always been too excited and tried a little too hard. It makes people uncomfortable. I'm a tad awkward. I am almost 40 and this still is an issue for me. Is kindness a weakness? Snark gets old. It's easy. It's …
Too Sober For This 