There is so much I cannot control but an apple a day is a thing I can do

Each morning as long as I can remember, I've had an apple with breakfast. Each morning since these babies could wrap their gums around them, I've given them applesauce or an apple. There is so much I cannot control but an apple a day is a thing I can do. I feel better when I have …

For all this I am thankful – but mostly for pie

For donuts at the library for the third time this week, where there's always a yoga class or story time or just one more book we need to get before we can leave. For another Thanksgiving sober, instead of one like years ago where I fell off the train drunk as my parents arrived to pick …

Things I want my daughter to know as we smash the patriarchy

This was in my daughters art pile from school yesterday. It's not "pretty". It's tough and a little sad but with a tiny smile and achingly beautiful. Just like my girl. I asked her who it was and she immediately said, "OH THAT'S ME". Of course I added the wording, but when I saw her self-portrait …