Donna Day 2014

When I first read Donna's Cancer Story, about 2 and a half years ago, I hadn't yet met Sheila (aka Mary Tyler Mom).  I hadn't yet had babies.  I wasn't pregnant, but longed to be so badly.  I was facing a life without being able to get pregnant due to infertility.  I had a child …

Stroking Your Scars

We all have scars. I have a small line at the bottom of my stomach from a last minute C-Section that birthed two beautiful babies a year ago.  I stroke that perfect scar often and reflect.  I relish this scar.  I remember exactly where I was and vaguely remember what happened.  I remember the pain …

On Being Completely and Utterly Sad

Everybody wants you to STOP BEING SAD.  Get happy!  Smile!  Screw that.  If I need to feel sad, I feel sad, because in order to truly feel happy, I need the darkness.  I'm just sad today.  And that is OK.  This sadness defies logic. It needs no real reason to creep in and take over …