40 is The New Black

Every year on my birthday my little mama calls me and says with a shaky yet happy voice, "(however many years ago - this year it's 40 years ago) right now it was just you and me kiddo."   It's more profound this year than any other year as I have my own babies to help me reflect on …

When the Drinking Doesn’t Stop

Today I am honored to share a piece from a guest blogger and colleague over at Chicago Now.  Kathy is a talented writer, quilter and survivor of an alcoholic relationship.  She's got a terrific life today but it wasn't always so bright.  I'm so glad she wrote about all this as I know so many of you out there …

The Sweetest Exhaustion

I just returned to the office after sitting around a table filled with dead people.  About 50 or so dead people all laughing and a couple crying - usually me - just grateful to be alive due to sobriety.  You get a brand new appreciation for how bad it was when you hear someone talk who's got …